Meeting Models, "10s", And Other Hot Women.

 How to meet Models, "10s", And Other Hot Women


***QUESTION***

Hey Dave, how's it hanging?

Read your stuff...interesting. Makes a lot of
sense to appear different then all the others. I
have one question, however. This C&F stuff (can I
call it "friendly mocking"?) really only works on
women who are sure of themselves and who will not
take your jokes to the heart. But how many of
those are in the world? I mean, with today's
"perfect" pop-stars most women have at least some
insecurities. So, how can you use this technique
and not accidentally hit a weak spot? Is there a
neutral C&F approach?

J Brooklyn, NY

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   I think you're hitting on an important point
here.

   I think that a lot of guys "secretly" want to
figure out a way to meet women without RISKING
anything.

   This is probably why personal ads and online
dating websites are so popular.

   The problem with not wanting to RISK anything
is that it creates a mindset that leads to being
AVERAGE.

   And "average" doesn't create ATTRACTION.

   I teach guys to use a specific kind of humor
that I call "Cocky & Funny".

   One of the purposes of the Cocky & Funny
technique is to clearly demonstrate that you are
NOT intimidated by a woman, and to INSTANTLY
communicate that you are DIFFERENT from other men.

   You'd like to know the magic way to "not
accidentally hit a weak spot"...

   But guess what?

   Accidents happen.

   Risk is part of life.

   Don't worry so much about hitting a "weak spot"
while you're teasing or busting on a woman... just
concern yourself with making sure you're being
FUNNY while you're doing it.

   If you meet a woman who is so sensitive that
she can't take a joke, or you "accidentally" over
do it, don't worry about it. No biggie.

   She's probably either too uptight or
emotionally fragile for you to have a good time
with anyway.

   If you want to make a cake, you have to break a
few eggs, man.

   Remember, your objective isn't to be MEAN to
women, or to hurt them... your objective is to use
a specific type of humor to create ATTRACTION.

   And give up this "neutral" idea. Neutral is
BORING. And Boring is NOT the way to create
ATTRACTION.



***QUESTION***

David "The Man"--

I can now approach and get the email of a woman
who would have made me shake in my boots just a
few months ago.  My most recent success was a girl
I dated who I turned up the C+F to the max, but my
old inner wussy made a brief appearance and that
was that.  Oh well. "Next!"  I'll get better and
better.

I have improved quite a bit, but I'm looking for
some guy friends as you suggest.  However, I'm
having a problem finding guys who are good with
women.  I'm not seeing them.  All I see everywhere
I go are wusses. Any thoughts or ideas?

I've also thought about finding friends who are
students of yours so we can get together for team
efforts.  Any suggestions here?

Thanks again for the incredible impact you've had
on my life.

 J.

 >>>MY COMMENTS:

   Yeah, I have one thought for you...

   This "Everywhere I go all I see is wusses"
thing can be a challenge. I shake my head almost
every single time I go out, because I think we're
in the middle of a WUSS EPIDEMIC in this country.

   Keep looking.

   It's worth it.

   If you have to, ask friends and associates at
work if they know any guys who are really good
with women.

   And remember, be cool. Guys who are good with
women often like to help other guys learn. But
don't be a boat anchor around his neck...

   If you do your homework and find some guys who
can help you, it will REALLY pay off.



***COMMENT FROM A WOMAN***

Sir,

  I received one of you Q&A emails by mistake, I'm
sure. I am an intelligent, female professional and
I reall-ll-ll-lly had a good laugh after reviewing
your web site as well.

  If you think that ALL women will be turned on by
these things, you are very mistaken. The classy,
sophisticated, and well educated as well as
intriguing and very attractive will have totally
different opinions on all these subjects. I think
you would do better to consider your experience as
incomplete.

  However, I'm sure you are making an obscene
amount of money by offering this misinformation
for sale to men.

Laughing Uncontrollably in Alaska  Meeting Models,
"10s", And Other Hot Women

 >>>MY COMMENTS:

   An intelligent female professional that lives
in ALASKA?

   Don't even get me started there...

   And since you seem to be claiming here that
you're an AUTHORITY on "The classy, sophisticated,
and well educated... as well as intriguing and
very attractive" women... I have to ask you where
you're getting this particular education...
Alaska?

   Maybe those words mean something different
where you're from.

   Whatever.

   Look, I used to be a "nice", sweet, BORING guy
who did nice things for women, acted respectful,
and generally was everything I thought a "good
guy" should be.

   And my success with meeting and attracting
women was horrible.

   I had a few good relationships with attractive
women, but these were ACCIDENTAL. It only happened
because I was in the right place at the right
time, and because the women just happened to have
NOTHING BETTER GOING ON.

   Now that I do what I teach, I'm able to attract
beautiful women whenever I want.

   You do the math.



 ***COMMENT FROM A WOMAN***

Hey Dave,

I forward your news letter to my ex-husband and to
my other male friends and they all thanked me for
it. I agree with all of your advice.  It's kind of
scary how well you read women.  You have also
helped me to realize what I'm attracted to and
why. Take care!

S MD

 >>>MY COMMENTS:

   Yeah, it's OK for you to admit that you're
attracted to ME.

   I don't blame you.

   You forgot to include your picture, dear.

   Waiting patiently.

   Your friend,

   David D.

   P.S. Stop forwarding these emails to your Ex.
It's bad enough that you love me... but to add
insult to injury for the poor guy...



***SUCCESS STORY***

David,

So, I go into a shoe store the other day and I'm
just kind of browsing. The clerk-- a cutie of age
21--asks me if she can help me. I kindly ask her
to get me a certain pair to try on. As I put the
shoes on, she enthusiastically squeaked, "WOW
THOSE SHOES LOOK GREAT ON YOU!!!". I mocked her in
the same hi-pitch tone, "YOU'RE ON COMMISION YOU
NEED TO SAY THAT!!" She gave me that playful
little slap on the arm and told me I was "a little
sh**".  I go on teasing her for 5 minutes or so
and she asks me if I would like a job at this
store. When she gave me the application, she also
hands me her HOME ADDRESS and phone number and
asked me to hand deliver it that night. To keep it
short,  that nite I gave her more than my job
resume!!!

Now, David, the previous situation is very unusual
for me, as I rarely have much to say, period. I've
always been very shy and very quiet  but am
starting to come out of that. I'm not scared to
approach women or anything but I just don't know
how to start or keep conversation, you know? I've
read books on this, listened to tapes and nothing
seems to help. Dave, I need some advice!!!

DK Indiana  Meeting Models, "10s", And Other Hot Women

 >>>MY COMMENTS:

   Oh, nice one!

   Great example of how to use Cocky & Funny with
a woman!

   And as for meeting women, stop worrying about
STARTING OR KEEPING CONVERSATIONS GOING.

   Just walk up to women, get their phone numbers,
and then get together with them later for a cup of
tea.

   No "starting of conversations" required.

   Use my 3 minute email/number technique, and
then break out your killer sense of humor later
when you're alone with her.

   You're doing fine... don't worry about
"conversations".

   And if you do wind up in a conversation, just
start out by talking about normal things, then
transition into the Cocky & Funny material as you
progress.



***QUESTION***

Hi Dave,

I have been receiving your emails for a while now
and boy have they been working. As a matter of
fact, I was actually using the C/F all the time,
without even realizing it. For example,

In one of my classes there is this girl that acts
weird most of the time (she's a solid 9.5) and one
day she was talking to me, and I just turned
around and said to my friend: "Did you say mental
hospital?" I  got a shot in the arm for that one.
I kept unknowingly using C/F on her for maybe
three days and then after one C/F comment she
replied (with her hand on my shoulder): "I like
you, you make me laugh" then she winked and turned
around. I was shocked! I mean, I had basically
been making fun of her. Little did I know that I
had been doing everything right (this was before I
started getting your emails).

So anyway, my question. I have no problems meeting
women in malls, on campus etc, but what about
online? Are there any C/F comments I can use to
start a conversation? The only ones I can think of
are when they have ridiculous/absurd chat names.

Thanks

A

 >>>MY COMMENTS:

   Well, one of the GREAT things about teasing
women is that you can basically GUESS things about
them and they'll respond.

   For instance, if you're talking to a woman
online, and you haven't seen her picture, you can
say:

   "OK, you're probably some hairy, manly, seven
hundred pound beast... and that's why you haven't
sent me your picture..."

   (Use this kind of thing when she says that
she's a model or dancer, etc. and it's obviously
not even close.)

   The bolder you are, and the funnier, the better
you'll do when guessing.

   Try it, you'll like it.



***QUESTION***

Dave-

  Whussup Man? Well I'm not gonna waste your time
or mine tellin you about how great your teaching
and knowledge is, because we both already know
what's up! I'm a 19 yr old who has downloaded your
ebook and I've read about the last 20+ emails..
I'm learning a lot. But I'm not where I want to be
yet.

  Well here is what happened.  I had lady friend
of mine over to the house the other night. Now we
have been friends for a little while now and I
have to tried in the past to pursue this woman but
like a lot of males in the world.. I would always
turn wussy on her. This women is about 5' nothin',
with a beautiful mind and a beautiful body, (she
is a 8 or 9 on my scale, and I'm picky.)*the radio
is ON*  We haven't talked in a while so we caught
up on each others lives..had some laughs with the
cocky/funny attitude and I even fixed dinner! Well
I told her before I made dinner that when we
finished eating she owed me a 30 min. massage. She
said okay. Now, we get done eating and she tells
me to dim the lights and lay down. She tells me
she is goin' to wash her hands and never comes
back.. SHE LEFT!!!!!!!  WHAT HAPPENED?!?!

JF from Texas

 >>>MY COMMENTS:

   What happened?

   You went and spanked your chicken with reckless
abandon?

   You cried yourself to sleep?

   lol... it's probably horrible that I'm laughing
at your misery, but hey, these things happen.

   Don't worry about it, man.

   Next time, try making something other than
"Hamburger Helper" with rainbow popsicles for
dessert.

   I think you're gonna live.

   The problem is that you acted like a WUSSY for
so long, that the thought of you being anything
more than a friend made her RUN all the way home.

   You created your own problem, by trying to make
a girl who was convinced that you were a Wuss into
something more than a friend. It's not easy.



***COMMENT***

Today I met an ex-girlfriend (and now good friend
and occasional date) for lunch at an Indian
buffet. This is a woman who has commented in the
past that she didn't like my cocky side (either I
wasn't doing it right, or she was lying), so I was
looking for a good opportunity to segue into a C&F
routine and see how it affected her. At one point
she complained that the bread was cold, and that I
should go get some fresh stuff...

ME: What's in it for me? [unoriginal line] HER:
I'll stay and finish lunch at your table.
Otherwise,      I'll go get the bread and sit over
there by myself.      [great answer!] ME: Well,
that'd be embarrassing. HER: Yup. ME: Everyone in
the restaurant would think that you     had to
move because you've got real bad gas.

And it went from there. You could see her eyes
getting brighter throughout the conversation, and
it ended with:

HER: Wow, you're feisty today... ME: Yeah, so...?
HER: So, it's really... attractive. ME [laughing]:
Boy, you're easy today...

That's a confession straight from the source:
feisty = attractive. And she went on to
demonstrate her attraction after lunch in an
unusually aggressive manner. I think everything
you're saying is capital-T Truth, brother.

You know, people assume that Kissinger was talking
about political power being the ultimate
aphrodisiac, but I think there are many nuances to
the word "power", and you don't have to be a
senator or CEO to exploit it.

Interesting aside: I was discussing this with an
insightful female friend, and she agreed with
everything you say, and added that women don't
want to be our mothers... and if we treat them
like we treat our mothers (i.e., act like a wuss),
what does that say?

C.K.  Meeting Models, "10s", And Other Hot Women

 >>>MY COMMENTS:

   Amen, brother. Amen.

   Feisty, Sassy, Cheeky, Ballsy... = ATTRACTION.



***QUESTION***

hey dave-lets get to the chase. 2 things (first
the success story).. i met this chik who was
getting off work..yelled out "HEY!" and she came
over to me.. i started talking about anything and
everything to get/keep her attention..busting on
her and all ..she gave me her # after 20 minutes..
BUt i didnt call. then i ran into her again in the
neighborhood but this time i did the same thing
"whats your # again?" and then finally i wrote it
down and scored on the second meeting after
coffee.. the stuff works bro

now for the wuss part..i meet this chik last
summer who was in town for her job assignment that
lasted for 1 month. Shes a real player. We met
again after the party (she called me and said hey
im coming over) and within 30 minutes she was in
my bed in her bra/panties BUT i didnt do anything
cause she was complaining about how guys are such
dogs. so i didnt do anything for the next 5
meetings. She said "Im glad you never did anything
cause we still wouldnt be talking if u did".
Anyway, last time we meet she invites me AND 4
other guys for dinner. she sits on their laps
(just like she did with me) to make me jealous. we
have kept in touch for 5 months and next month
she'll be back for a 2 week visit. i have heard
shes talking to 5 other guys in town besides me.
whenever i confront her on the phone about these
guys she says "nooo! im not! and ive never slept
with any of them so ignore the rumors! who do you
believe them or me??!" she called me 1 month ago
and let my phone ring once, and then when i called
her back it was a guys voice (she moved in with
her "friend" from high school)

my question is: i told her how i felt about her
and she already said she just wants to be friends
because she travels around a lot. she'll be
staying with 1 or 2 of these guys shes talking to
when she comes back and will try to make me sooo
jealous i know it. she called me last week and
actually asked me for one of these guys numbers. I
got angry and hung up on her (something i would
never have done before) and then she called me
back and actually seems a lot more interested.
Then i called her yesterday from work and told her
that a stripper approached me at a bar and asked
me out and then this girl said "ohh well why dont
you go out with her then?" but then said "OH by
the way Im coming back on APRIL 21st".. i want to
beat her at her own damn game! but i already gave
her so much power. i wish i could just take it all
back and make her feel the same way.

HOW DO I HANDLE THIS GIRL:??? SHES DRIVING ME
NUTS!!!

CJ

Houston,TX  Meeting Models, "10s", And Other Hot Women

 >>>MY COMMENTS:

   Wow, this is actually a very powerful story.

   First, she intimidated you by telling you that
"guys are dogs"... which caused you to not try to
take things to a physical level.

   When you did that, YOU FAILED THE FIRST TEST.

   She intimidated you with her words!

   Then, the more you pursued her without
progressing, the more she tested you.

   Until she finally started INSULTING you...
right in front of a bunch of other guys!

   By the way, when you mentioned that after you
hung up on her she seemed a lot more interested...
it's probably true.

   Look, man.... BAIL! Drop it. Hit the road.

   You screwed up in the beginning by handing over
control of the relationship to her, and it's not
worth the trouble or hassle to try to take it
back.

   She's probably the type of girl that LOVES to
play guys and make them chase her... and who
enjoys seeing how much a guy will do to get her...
only to leave after he does all he can.

   Move on.

   But remember the lesson. Steer clear of women
like this in the future.


   Note: If you've read this story, and you can
IDENTIFY with this guy who wrote it... and you
know what it feels like to want a woman, but be
completely OUT OF CONTROL of the situation... then
I recommend that you work on your INNER GAME as
much as possible. Self Image and Self Esteem are
keys in this area, as they help you pass these
"tests" that women throw at you... and they help
you raise your standards, and avoid unhealthy
women

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