Men's dating secrets!
I was getting feedback from
differing women that they loved me as a
friend but did not want to be sexual with
me. This page is the result of my quest
to look into men's dating secrets and why I was getting this
feedback.
I believe that most women want a strong
man that they can't dominate. I would
define a strong man is someone that knows
his life purpose and stands up for what
he believes in. A man that always tries
to please his women to keep her happy is
asking for trouble in the long term. If
she knows she can manipulate him to get
what she wants always she will over time
loose sexual interest in her partner.
After all if she can manipulate him she
will think any other women will be able
to do the same so she will not trust him
at all. For a women to really let go
sexually usually requires that she
totally trust her man.
Women's liberation has turned the
focus on men to be more in their their
hearts and to treat women with respect
etc. However a lot of men have lost their
way and become too wishy washy and weak. Learn what
do women hate in a man and
what
women want
in a man
Most men feel
uncomfortable about their women's
more negative emotional aspects. Standing up to a
feminine women takes courage and
most men like ease. They either run
away or try to make suggestions on how to
solve the women's emotional problems.
This makes things worse!
If a man has not really cut the
emotional neediness with their mother the
women comes into his life and in 10
minutes knows how to take the place of their
mother. Maybe she does this
unconsciously but she know she can get
what she wants. The man will never go and
face this issue because it is a deep
issue from childhood. This neediness puts
a tightness or band around the back of
the mans heart area. The more often he
does not act from integrity the more
energy he looses and life looses the
sparkle and challenge.
Also the man never challenges the
women to face up to her little girl issues
if he always gives in to her. Most women
challenge their man so they can grow up.
They can sense the true potential in
their man and they want him to grow up.
So they nag and challenge their man. Can
he stay present when she gets emotional.
Can he not shut down when her kali energy
comes out and she even can take on the
appearance of a demon. I feel a man
should also challenge the women to grow
up too.
If a man is needy and wants sex,
he tends to try to keep his women happy
by not standing up or negotiating for
what he wants. Funny enough, this has the
opposite effect with most women, he gets
less sex. If you ask women how they react
to needy men you will get strong feedback
like yuk etc.
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I remember a man telling me a wile ago that for 3
months he asked every available women out.
He would even in the street walk up to a
women and ask her out. At first he got
the feedback to get lost etc. After
asking many many women out he got to the
stage that he did not care less if they
said yes or no. He had got over his
rejection response. As soon as he was not
needy the women started to respond to him
and some started to say yes.
I know a unique energy body worker
that is my mentor in the sexual area. He
is totally in his integrity. I would
define this as he feels, thinks and his
actions are all unified. He can give
women orgasms from his
tantra hugs, on the
phone and even across the room. I
have seen him in a introductory talk ask
for a women from the audience and she
lies down fully clothed. He moved his
hands about 6 inches above her body and
in 10 to 20 minutes she is in continuous
orgasms. I still reminder a hug from him
that caused so much energy in my body
that I had to push him away after 3
seconds. I have never before experienced
so much sexual energy in his workshops
either.
Women love his energy and his
integrity. He never tries to please them
to keep them happy. He is like a sex
magnet and women tell their friends
about the amazing energetic sexual
experience they have had with him and
recommend him to others. He can feel the
women's energetic state in his body and
he comes totally from his heart. Women
ask him and pay him for tantric sex. He
never has to ask for sex.
His message for men is to act from
integrity. Most of what is on this
page is inspired by him. Overcome your
mothers issues and stand on your own two
feet. Break free from the neediness for
sex or to be in a relationship so you
then can't be manipulated. Go into your
energetic body especially during sex.
So how can you start to grow in this
area. I've got a long way to go in this
area in men's dating secrets so it is work in progress for me. I
feel you first must grow to love being
uncomfortable and challenged. Learn to
like being at your edge. Any
relationship will provide many
opportunities to grow up. Go for the
scary option instead of the easy option.
Every day so something that is scary or
anything you have some fear around. I
know this is hard but if you do this I
have found you generate a lot more energy
and bliss in your life.
I also try to remember during the day
to go to my breath. Is it full and
relaxed and am I using my belly in my
breath. Is my anus relaxing on every in-breath.
When I am challenged emotionally can I
stay present and relaxed in my breath or
do I tighten up.
Like I said before, one of the best
ways to learn more about the
signs of flirting in women
or show their interest is to
watch them interacting with other guys. And with you.
You should start paying attention to this when you are
out and about.
Another practice I try to do is to
hold the eye contact of a new women for 3
to 4 seconds and then smile and
look away. Then come back to the
women's eye contact. Do doing this
practice you are showing you are not
scared of the women and by looking way
you show you are in control. A lot of men
have trouble holding a women's eye
contact. Women straight away know this is
a weak man!
Women find attractive men that do
not try to please them to get attention
or sex. What do women hate in a man?
Most men are needy around women. If you really want to change your wussy
behaviors that 90% of men use, I recommend
you go to
what
women want
in a man and
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