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How to end your fear of approaching women

   Would you like to end your fear of approaching
women.


   Tell me if this sounds familiar...

   You're out grabbing groceries... and just as
you're about to turn into the bread isle, you
catch a glimpse of SEXY blonde hair...

   Your eyes wander for further inspection... and
you see that she's packing more than just a head
of lettuce and some firm tofu...

   You say to yourself, "Well, she probably just
has a nice figure... but I doubt she has the
pretty face I'm looking for..."

   As you nonchalantly take a few steps closer,
hoping to catch a glimpse of her face without her
noticing you looking... you catch yourself
secretly hoping that she ISN'T attractive to
you... so the pressure you feel building up inside
of you will be gone...

   She turns to the side... and she's STUNNING.

   You feel your heart start to beat a little
faster... because worse yet... she's just your
type.

   And then... that familiar "voice" starts in...

   You say to yourself, "Well, she's gotta be
married..."

   You look for a ring... nothing.

   Damn.

   "Well... she's probably here with her
boyfriend... I'll come back in a minute and make
sure she's alone."

   You turn and walk away, and try your best to
get back to shopping... though there's only one
thing on your mind...

   You get to the front of the store, and there
she is again, pulling into the check-out line...

   ALONE.

   Damn! Your heart starts to beat even faster.
Your fear of approaching women is activated.
You're headed STRAIGHT for her... NOW is your
chance...

   But then "that voice" comes racing back...

   "A girl like that has to have some kind of
boyfriend."

   "NO... forget that... it's time to make a
move!"

   As you rack your brain trying to come up with
the perfect thing to say, you find yourself
secretly hoping that someone will pull in line
behind her and give you an "excuse" for not
starting a conversation with her. Or maybe she'll
answer her cell phone. Or maybe it's bad timing,
because soon it will be her turn and she'll be
talking to the cashier...

   Thoughts are spinning through your head like a
tornado as you get closer and closer and closer...
and then...

   "ARRRGH... not now... I need something good to
say..."

   You push your cart past her... down, but not
out. You'll catch her when she's leaving the
store, right?

   You start to rack your brain some more...
thinking of the best way to start up the
conversation... but THEN... something catches your
ear...

   It's the sound of a MALE VOICE behind you...
followed by the sound of female laughter...

   You look back... and YEP... it's the boyfriend!

   Pheewww! You let out a sigh of relief... and
pat yourself on the back for not doing something
stupid!

   But wait...

   She's finished checking out... AND HE'S NOT
LEAVING WITH HER...

   Huh?

   You try to get just a little bit closer...
trying to figure out what's going on. Maybe he's
an old friend?

   Then... you hear him say, "Nice meeting you!"
to which she shouts back...

   "Call me!"

   OUCH.

   Has something like THIS ever happened to YOU?
If it sounds familiar, I'm not surprised...
because this very thing has happened to me several
times... and to almost every guy I know.

We all have some fear of approaching women on some level.

   No... it isn't always THIS bad. But if you're
like most guys, I'm sure there's been many times
in your life when you've seen an attractive woman
you've wanted to meet... but then THAT VOICE came
along and messed it all up...

   It's an interesting feeling when she finally
walks out of the store or gets in her car... and
you KNOW you're never going to see her again,
isn't it?

   On one hand you feel RELIEVED, because now the
pressure is off... but on the other hand... you
feel something BIGGER...

   Frustration. Remorse. A thousand "what ifs?"...

   It's like you can actually feel your confidence
and self-esteem shrinking inside of you... because
you KNOW you dropped the ball.

   So why is this happening?

   Why is it than when we see an attractive woman
we want to meet, THAT VOICE sometimes comes along
fills your mind with reasons NOT to approach
her... and NOT to start up a conversation?

   And more importantly... how the hell can we GET
THAT VOICE OUT OF OUR HEADS... and stop preventing
OURSELVES from meeting the women that we want to
meet?

   Well fortunately, although you would never
expect it... it can be MUCH easier than you
think...

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